Hi. It's me. Nicky Tamberrino

I’m constantly trying, failing, succeeding, and learning. There’s no roadmap for what I’m doing—no foolproof guide or checklist to follow. It’s exhausting and frustrating at times, but it also fills me with extreme pride. Looking back, I can see how far I’ve come—the ways I’ve grown and the lessons I’ve learned. I’m proud that I didn’t give up, even when it felt easier to throw in the towel. When I first started, I knew so little. Now, I know so much more… but even that’s funny because what I think I know will either change, evolve, or turn out to be completely wrong in a year. Keeping up is its own challenge. Technology improves at a lightning pace, trends shift, and I change. My audience changes. The landscape of what I’m doing is always in motion. It’s a dance between staying relevant and staying true to myself, and it’s not easy. But it’s life, isn’t it? And here’s the thing: there’s no roadmap for your life either—why should there be? Your life isn’t supposed to look like anyone e...

What If I’m Just Not Wired That Way? Do you ever feel like the world wasn’t designed for the way you operate? I do. A lot. What if I’m just not a planner? What if I don’t want to live my life more than a week—or even a day—at a time? Is that okay? Can I still succeed, thrive, and build a life that works  for me , even if it doesn’t look like the Pinterest-perfect, color-coded schedule everyone else seems to have? A Question of Wiring There’s a lot of pressure in life to fit into certain molds. Be punctual. Be organized. Plan ahead. But what if I’m the kind of person who thrives in the moment? What if I work better on the fly? What if I’m always running a little late—not because I’m lazy or disrespectful, but because my brain genuinely feels more alive when there’s a hint of chaos to it all? For a long time, I thought something was wrong with me. “Why can’t you just be more organized?” I’d ask myself. “Why can’t you plan better? Why does it feel so unnatural to schedule things weeks...